How Can I Find the Best Psychic?

If you're looking for the best psychic, the answer can vary from person to person. Sometimes it depends on the connection you feel when you're talking to someone. You may find that there is more than one effective psychic out there for you. Perhaps one psychic serves you well for a certain period of your life and another has just the right messages for you during a different phase of your journey.

There is a wide range of the kinds of psychics who are practising in the world, and as with many professions, some people will be more adept at creating a good rapport with clients than others. Some of the reasons for this can be personality, experience as a psychic, and ethics.

Psychic readings can reveal a lot of personal information on a variety of topics that could potentially make someone feel quite vulnerable, so it's important that you feel comfortable with the person you choose. If you are looking for someone to give you a the best psychic reading possible, try using this basic criteria for deciding if they may be the right psychic for you:

*Is he/she honest?

*Is he/she consistent? Does he/she follow through on his/her word, or at least make every effort to fulfill a promise?

*Is he/she clear in his/her communication?

*Does this person take responsibility for his/her actions? For instance, can he/she apologise if a mistake has been made?

*Can he/she be non-judgmental about my actions and refrain from telling me what to do?

*Is this person capable of empathy? Does he/she seem to care about and understand my experiences and feelings?

Honest, consistent, clear, responsible, non-judgmental, and empathic are some of the guidelines you can use in your search. The first suggested question on the list is about honesty. Please note that if someone claims to be a psychic but mentions that you will need to pay them to remove a "curse" or a "block", this is almost always a financial scam.

First of all, I don't believe in curses. As a hypnotherapist, I think that what we have come to believe are "curses" are actually old beliefs we are carrying around in our unconscious mind which are causing us to repeat patterns without our conscious consent. There is "software" in our unconscious mind that can be upgraded to a belief system that works better for us, sometimes with hypnotherapy, sometimes with self-hypnosis, and sometimes by taking contrary action in your life. What is contrary action? Basically, doing things differently than you normally would in order to get a different result.

"Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results." - Albert Einstein

The list above mentions both pronouns he and she. Does it matter if the person you choose to be your psychic is male or female? Only if that's important to you for personal reasons. On a spiritual level, the messages we receive as channels should be beyond culture, gender, and other physical considerations. Sometimes it's difficult to receive a message without filtering it through the lens of our own experience. The best psychic for you will be able to set aside their ego and channel something beyond their own personal life events.

Ultimately, some people are not a good match and it's okay to let a psychic know if you're not feeling a connection. The earlier in the reading that you can let them know this, the better. That way you can spend more time looking for someone who works for you. Sometimes discomfort can force us to seek out better experiences. It's also possible that the next psychic you try will have just the right message that you're ready to hear.